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it"sNeverTooLate
ByMarilynManning
Severalyearsago,whileattendingacommunicationscourse,iexperiencedamostunusualprocess.Theinstructoraskedustolistanythinginourpastthatwefeltashamedof,guiltyabout,regretted,orincompleteabout.Thenextweekheinvitedparticipantstoreadtheirlistsaloud.Thisseemedlikeaveryprivateprocess,butthere"salwayssomebravesoulinthecrowdwhowillvolunteer.Aspeoplereadtheirlists,minegrewlonger.Afterthreeweeks,ihad101itemsonmylist.Theinstructorthensuggestedthatwefindwaystomakeamends,apologizetopeople,ortakesomeactiontorightanywrongdoing.iwasseriouslywonderinghowthiscouldeverimprovemycommunications,havingvisionsofalienatingjustabouteveryonefrommylife.
instructorn.教师wrongdoingn.坏事、不道德行为alienatev.疏远
Thenextweek,themannexttomeraisedhishandandvolunteeredthisstory:
"Whilemakingmylist,irememberedanincidentfromhighschool.igrewupinasmalltowniniowa.Therewasasheriffintownthatnoneofuskidsliked.Onenight,mytwobuddiesandidecidedtoplayatrickonSheriffBrown.Afterdrinkingafewbeers,wefoundacanofredpaint,climbedthetallwatertankinthemiddleoftown,andwrote,onthetank,inbrightredletters:SheriffBrownisans.o.b.Thenextday,thetownarosetoseeourglorioussign.Withintwohours,SheriffBrownhadmytwopalsandmeinhisoffice.Myfriendsconfessedandilied,denyingthetruth.Nooneeverfoundout.
sheriffn.治安官buddyn.密友、伙伴s.o.b.(缩写)畜生、狗娘养的
"Nearly20yearslater,SheriffBrown"snameappearsonmylist.ididn"tevenknowifhewasstillalive.Lastweekend,idialedinformationinmyhometownbackiniowa.Sureenough,therewasaRogerBrownstilllisted.idialedhisnumber.Afterafewrings,iheard:"Hello?"isaid:"SheriffBrown?"Pause."Yup.""Well,thisisJimmyCalkins.Andiwantyoutoknowthatididit."Pause."iknewit!"heyelledback.Wehadagoodlaughandalivelydiscussion.Hisclosingwordswere:"Jimmy,ialwaysfeltbadlyforyoubecauseyourbuddiesgotitofftheirchest,andiknewyouwerecarryingitaroundalltheseyears.iwanttothankyouforcallingme...foryoursake.""
yellv.大叫、忍不住笑saken.缘故、理由
Jimmyinspiredmetoclearupall101itemsonmylist.ittookmealmosttwoyears,butbecamethespringboardandtrueinspirationformycareerasaconflictmediator.Nomatterhowdifficulttheconflict,crisisorsituation,ialwaysrememberthatit"snevertoolatetoclearupthepastandbeginresolution.
springboardn.出发点mediatorn.调停者
中文:
几年前,我参加了一个人际关系方面的课程,其间有过一次独特的经历。老师要求我们列出过去自己曾感羞愧、负疚、缺憾和悔恨的事情。一周后他请大家大声宣读自己所列的清单。这看起来有涉隐私,但确总有勇敢之人自告奋勇。听了别人的陈述,我的清单愈发长起来,3周之后竟达101条之多。之后老师建议我们想法弥补缺憾,向别人真诚道歉,采取行动来纠正自己的过失。我对此举能够增进我的人际关系深表疑惑,相反却认为这只能使彼此更加疏远。共2页,当前第1页12※本文作者:佚名※
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